Paul's father John Sonley was a farm labourer and Paul followed the same line. In 1841 Paul was working as a farm labourer at Muston. On the 17th May 1841, Paul married LUCY PARKE, (Born 1815) at Muston Parish Church. Lucy was clearly of a ‘monied’ family from nearby Lebberston (a tiny agricultural village in the North Riding of Yorkshire, close to Filey) and that is where they went to live, on a few acres of land, no doubt financed by Lucy, on which they raised bacon pigs. They settled at Lebberston.
They had two sons, but both died in their infancy: -
Robert Shepherd was christened on the 5th May 1842 and was buried two days later at St Oswald's.
Frederick was christened on the 26th April 1843 and died on the 9th July 1843. He too is buried at St Oswald's.
Unfortunately Lucy died from consumption on the 19th June 1843, not long after the birth of Frederick, when she was only 28 years old. She is buried in St Oswald's Churchyard Filey. She left a will, leaving £100 to Paul and the rest of her estate to her son Frederick and then to her sister Ann Parke.